FORGIVENESS: PART ONE
Love Your Enemies. Damn.
This is the first of a three part post about forgiveness. It’s in three parts because forgiveness is hard and it takes time to soak into us. Read these as they’re posted over the next three weeks and see what changes in your life.
Let’s be real: Jesus didn’t spend much time laying out morality. But when he did, he went straight for the spiritual jugular vein: “Love your enemies.” (Luke 6:27).
And the only honest human reaction is: Damn. I’d much rather hate my enemies. It feels rational. Economically clear. Emotionally satisfying. But Jesus said it, damn it.
And he didn’t stop there. He piles it on higher and higher:
- Do good to those who hate you.
- Bless those who curse you.
- Pray for those who abuse you.
This is the Gospel’s closest thing to a definition of love. Not love as warm fuzzy feelings. Not even love as better relationships. Jesus never says, “Love your kids” or “Love your spouse.” He says, “Love your enemies.” That’s it. That’s Jesus’ teaching on love.
And here’s the kicker: love isn’t a feeling. In Jesus’ world, love was what you did. Love was action — doing good, blessing, praying — even for enemies. Especially for enemies.
Forgiveness starts here. Not with feelings. Not with emotions that can change on a dime. But with actions that break down the walls between “us” and “them.” That’s breathtaking. That’s terrifying. And that’s the crown jewel of Jesus’ moral teaching.

“Jesus doesn’t mess around. His command to “love your enemies” isn’t optional, and it sure isn’t easy. What if forgiveness doesn’t start with feelings at all, but with radical action?”
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